West Des Moines brothers with Down syndrome share spotlight in Times Square
The National Down Syndrome Society's annual Buddy Walk and Times Square Video Presentation involves photos of children, teens, and adults with Down syndrome.
The National Down Syndrome Society's annual Buddy Walk and Times Square Video Presentation involves photos of children, teens, and adults with Down syndrome.
The National Down Syndrome Society's annual Buddy Walk and Times Square Video Presentation involves photos of children, teens, and adults with Down syndrome.
Saturday marks the , the latter of which involves photos of children, teens, and adults with Down syndrome from across the country. This year, there are multiple photos featuring people from Iowa, including the sons of a family in West Des Moines.
Adam and Shawn Liker-Hill have four children: 6-year-old Gabe, 5-year-old Jameson, 4-year-old Tristan, and 2-year-old Axel. Both Tristan and Axel have Down syndrome. Tristan passed away when he was 5 months old.
“We had him from birth; we got to cut the cord,” said Adam, who says Tristan died from a medical fluke. “It feels like a full family, but not as full as it could be if Tristan was still with us.”
Tristan’s memory, however, lives on.
The family continues to talk about Tristan, share stories, and get photos that are professionally taken and edited, with some including Tristan in them.
One of those photos includes the one the couple submitted to the National Down Syndrome Society for the Times Square Video Presentation. They were able to send one with Axel and Tristan, who had never met, after a friend and photographer edited it for them.
“We were able to get that picture of them together in about the same pose as best as we could with what we had of pictures of Tristan. It came back exactly how I envisioned it,” Adam said. “It’s just such a friendly reminder — a happy reminder — of the link that they share even though they’re not together.”
The photo is one of around 500 picked from more than 2,600 photos submitted to the NDSS for the presentation.
“We do it in the heart of Times Square,” said Kandi Pickard, the president and CEO of NDSS. “We’re highlighting these 500 videos, then we head to Central Park, where all the fun begins.”
Pickard said the presence of the thousands who come out for the walk forms a connection with the thousands of people who will walk through Times Square and around Central Park.
“I get to see the general public who get to ask all the questions of ‘what is going on?’ and ‘why are you all here?’" Pickard said. “We get to share a little bit about Down syndrome, and I think it’s so great to see families so proud to tell their story of why they’re there.”
Adam and Shawn hope Saturday will show people with loved ones with disabilities that there’s a community and resources out there.
While the couple, who have worked with students with disabilities for most of their careers, say that seeing Alex and Tristan on a Times Square board is great, they agree that what’s more important is the impact all of the photos could have on others.
“Both of our hope is that people will see these individual pictures and realize that they’re the same,” Adam said. “They just need a little bit extra support, help in school, or help in the community, but they’re just as capable as everyone else.”
When it comes to local resources, the Liker-Hills named Gigi’s Playhouse as a good local resource.
The hour-long Times Square presentation is set for Saturday at 8:30 a.m. It will be streamed on the .